Nigerian actress Judy Austin Yul-Edochie recently addressed married women who frequently express dissatisfaction with their husbands. In a video shared on her social media platforms on January 25, 2025, Judy emphasized the importance of respecting one’s husband, regardless of his attributes or shortcomings. She stated, “No matter how small or short or poor a man is, he is still the head of the home and must be respected by his wife.”
Judy acknowledged that while some marriages may become unfulfilling, constant complaints are not a constructive solution. She advised women to adopt a different approach if they find themselves in persistent conflict with their spouses. “A lot of women always complain about their husbands year in, year out. Enough of the complaining! You cannot complain every day of your life. If you feel like your home is not working or you are always having issues with your husband, my sister, change your style!”
Highlighting the significance of communication, Judy urged women to be mindful of their tone and manner when addressing their husbands, even when they believe their spouse is at fault. She remarked, “Regardless of how wrong he is, your manner of approach matters. You need to understand that you are talking to your husband.”
Judy also touched upon the nature of men, describing them as “big babies” who require a nurturing and understanding environment. She suggested that women should learn how to make their husbands feel valued and cared for, which could lead to a more harmonious relationship. “All men are babies, big babies. You just need to know how to make them feel like one around you,” she added.
Her advice has sparked a range of reactions from the public. Some individuals criticized Judy for offering marital advice, pointing to her personal life and relationships as a basis for their skepticism. For instance, a commenter remarked, “Then why did you leave Obasi to go and drag another person’s husband, see you giving marriage counseling.”
Others, however, found value in her message, emphasizing the importance of respect and effective communication in marriage. The discourse highlights the diverse perspectives on marital roles and the complexities of offering and receiving advice on such personal matters.
In conclusion, Judy Austin’s recent commentary underscores the importance of respect, effective communication, and adaptability in marital relationships. While her advice has elicited mixed reactions, it brings to the forefront essential discussions about the dynamics of marriage and the roles both partners play in fostering a harmonious union.