Nigerian actress Olayinka Adebanjo has made a heartfelt appeal to the public for assistance in her quest to become a mother again following the tragic loss of her only child. In a recent episode of the Talk2B podcast, hosted by Biola Bayo, Adebanjo shared the devastating story of her 28-year-old son, Adeniyi Ishola, who was a nurse and tragically passed away after collapsing during a football game.
Adeniyi had completed his nursing education and was at a point where Adebanjo anticipated reaping the rewards of her sacrifices. Reflecting on the profound loss, she expressed her deep sorrow:
“I have seen a lot after the loss of my son. I have seen someone abuse it to my face that I am barren in old age. My son Adeniyi Ishola went to school to study nursing and graduated. It now came to a time when I was supposed to enjoy the fruit of my labour. He went to play football and slumped.”
Following this tragedy, Adebanjo explored adoption options and visited an adoption center in Abeokuta. However, she expressed a strong desire to conceive and carry her own child, stating:
“I have gone to where they adopt children at Abeokuta. I have spent a lot of money. That was where I was told to go for different medical tests and I have their receipts. Biola please have mercy on me. I do not want to be barren in my old age. I want to carry my child. I do not want to carry another person’s child.”
In her plea, Adebanjo reached out to Nigerians for support in exploring medical alternatives that could assist her in conceiving again. She emphasized her desire to experience motherhood once more and implored:
“Nigerians please help me. Whatever it is you can do for me. I do not want to die suddenly. Talk2B I am begging you to please do whatever you can for me. Have mercy on me.”
During the podcast, host Biola Bayo suggested surrogacy as a viable option for Adebanjo, considering her age. Bayo estimated the cost of surrogacy to be between 15 to 20 million Naira and expressed a willingness to assist in raising the necessary funds:
“I do not know how we are going to help Aunty Yinka. I want to advise surrogacy because of her age. All I need is just resources. With N15 to N20 million we can do this.”
Adebanjo’s appeal has garnered attention and sympathy from the public, with many expressing their support and willingness to assist her in achieving her dream of motherhood again. Her story highlights the profound grief of losing an only child and the deep yearning to experience the joys of parenthood once more.
Olayinka Adebanjo has been a prominent figure in the Nigerian film industry since 1983, known for her dynamic roles in Yoruba films. Her personal tragedy and subsequent appeal have shed light on the emotional challenges faced by parents who have lost their children and the lengths to which they are willing to go to embrace parenthood again.
The discussion of surrogacy as an option for Adebanjo also brings attention to the broader topic of assisted reproductive technologies in Nigeria. While surrogacy offers a pathway to parenthood for individuals facing fertility challenges, it remains a complex and often costly process. Adebanjo’s situation underscores the need for increased awareness and support for individuals seeking alternative methods to build their families.
As Adebanjo continues her journey towards motherhood, her story serves as a poignant reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring hope that many hold onto in the face of profound loss. Her appeal has not only touched the hearts of many but also sparked important conversations about fertility, loss, and the various avenues available to those yearning to become parents.
In the wake of her public appeal, there has been an outpouring of support from fans, colleagues, and well-wishers. Many have taken to social media to express their empathy and to offer assistance, both emotional and financial, to help Adebanjo realize her dream of becoming a mother again.
The collective response to Adebanjo’s plea highlights the compassion within the community and the shared understanding of the importance of family and the desire to support one another during times of profound grief and hope.
As discussions around surrogacy and other assisted reproductive technologies continue, Adebanjo’s story may serve as a catalyst for greater awareness and support for individuals and couples facing similar challenges. Her openness in sharing her journey provides a platform for dialogue and education, potentially leading to increased resources and assistance for those navigating the complex paths to parenthood.
In conclusion, Olayinka Adebanjo’s heartfelt appeal to Nigerians reflects a mother’s enduring love and her unwavering hope to experience the joys of motherhood once more. Her story resonates deeply with many, shedding light on the personal struggles faced by those who have lost children and the various avenues they may pursue to rebuild their families. The support and empathy she has received underscore the strength of community and the shared human experience of love, loss, and hope.
For more insights into Olayinka Adebanjo’s story, you can watch her interview on the Talk2B podcast: