After learning that his fiancée of one year and three months, with whom he had hoped to spend the rest of his life, had cheated on him with a classmate, a 23-year-old Nigerian man, who is currently enrolled in his 400-level at a Nigerian institution, has expressed his anguish.
The man described his experience in an emotional confession that was posted on the social networking site X (previously Twitter).
He clarified in his anonymous message that he had helped his partner through difficult academic times and had been there for her.
Although she was supposed to be at the same academic level as him, the girlfriend, who had previously been at another institution, had transferred to his department and school because of challenges she faced.
The man, who had encouraged his girlfriend to achieve in spite of her scholastic difficulties, expressed his profound dismay at her betrayal of his confidence.
He let his feelings out in a long text:
“My girlfriend of one year and three months was discovered cheating on me with a classmate just now. I think this girl was a saint during our relationship, and I had dreamed of spending the rest of my life with her.
“I am twenty-three years old, and I have consistently refused to participate in fraudulent activities despite peer pressure. My father frequently says, ‘There is a way that seems right to a man, but the end is always a big gbese,’ before hanging up the phone.” “She was supposed to be in the same year as me, but because of problems at her previous university, I assisted her in transferring to my school, in the same department. I pushed her academically, as I am one of the top students, not to boast. She is not as strong academically, but I supported her because I love her.”
Since the ASUU strike eight months ago, I’ve been paying attention to and putting your teachings into practice. I never used money to steer the relationship the way you indicated, and I felt I was guiding her in the proper path. But I’m really hurt by this treachery.
Many worried people poured their opinions and support into the comments area as the post went viral.
View few responses below……
@aliuolaitan07: “Embrace the game, bro, and get ready for another heartbreaking moment—23? Before you eventually become like us, your elders in the game, at least you go chop reach about five concrete ones.
“Someone who should focus on obtaining a nice life leave me and go find love,” said @eljay_101_. Let’s say they break a head.
@Samuel__szn: “You’re still a young man, so concentrate on your studies, graduate, and land a decent career. I promise you that you will meet a better individual in the future. Although it hurts, that girl was never prepared for life.
@Mscents_: Better concentrate and complete your studies. Lover boy, how did you get her to be in your department?
@ChillingFella: “Pay attention to your studies and, if you start dating again, step up your screening. To regain that werey, keep that in mind. Finish.
@3Ggar_: “To prevent disappointments like this, it’s best for you to not include your partner in your future plans or ambitions. Simply savor the present.
@kunlezdonk: “You’re 23 years old, and you still have a lot of heartache ahead of you. Just have faith, my buddy.”
“Den don show efiko (bookworm) shege😂😂,” said @Topman2gentle. I’m glad you’re learning about her early. Writing tests to get his girlfriend to enroll at the same university as him nearly led to a friend’s imprisonment. My friend tried everything for her to get admitted. She introduced herself with a different man.
@MhiztahDan: “I don’t want to get into a relationship on school because it’s very risky, and if you’re weak and they break your heart, then your outcome is going to be bad,” Get well, family!
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