As she describes a husband who fled after his wife gave birth to a child without hands, a Nigerian nurse has advised women to wait until they are financially prepared before becoming pregnant.
Her page on the well-known social media site TikTok had a video that included a lengthy statement.
In the video, she counseled ladies to wait until they are genuinely ready to get pregnant rather than getting pregnant just because they feel forced by their age or because they are getting older.
She gave the example of a recent medical episode.
A woman recently gave birth to a child who was born with abnormalities, specifically without hands, she said.
The baby’s condition caused the spouse to flee when he arrived to check on him.
The new mother broke down in tears, lamenting her choice to become a mother.
“As a young woman, if you’ve decided to get pregnant, be ready to bear that pregnancy yourself,” the nurse said. Many of you believe that since you’re reaching 26 and feel aging, you must become pregnant, but pregnancy isn’t for the weak.
“Once you get pregnant, money is everything—today, tomorrow, and forever.” “Some men don’t have empathy.”
The spouse of a woman who recently gave birth to a child with birth defects fled when he discovered the child was born without fingers. “Who told me to get pregnant?” the woman sobbed as she started to regret her choice. I believed that I was helping this so-called man who is now evading his obligations.
Many worried people flocked to the comment area to express their opinions as the nurse told her story.
View a few responses below:
🐨𝓞𝓤𝓡 𝓑𝓐𝓑𝓨 🧸🌺🎀😈: “I’m very fertile 🥺 and don’t know how to calculate my ovulation, and even apps aren’t accurate 🥺🙏. Could you help tell me what I may use to prevent pregnancy?”
sexy🌶 “So, will the infant eventually develop it?”
ℌ𝖊̌𝔦̈𝖘�� 𝕭𝔯̌𝖚��𝔫̃𝖔̈: “Even you, you no go ru😒💔💀😂.
Azah Nancy: “How does a girl’s desire for a bby relate to the bby’s malformation? I don’t get it.
“Please tell me what caused the issue,” said Pradelle Caïla.
According to Ideraoluwa🌹💋💝, “You all think that a women shouldn’t give birth if she doesn’t have the money.” I gave birth four days after my wedding and still used Cs because I had already spent the most of my money on the wedding.
Linda Adaeze: “Pregcare Max is 40k, and I use it every month. Pregnancy is costly, not to mention the need to maintain a healthy diet.
Prolific FX: “You believe that life is a farce?👁👁🥲🥲.
Big_Dave220: “They don’t inform anyone if you’re not wealthy, born, or considering marriage 💯 e isn’t funny at all.”
“Tell them oo if I talk naw anyway, patronize me I do crocheting 🧶 wears,” says ujucrochet.
Nella: “This is the real deal. Lord help me, I need a reliable source of money so that I may support myself and others. 😩
“So, girls should not get pregnant because of one incident because they don’t know how to handle issues when pregnant. She supposes to conduct a child formation test, and if the child is not developing well, you can elect to terminate it,” said Adeola Fashola.
Mou’s Baby: “Did the woman not even go to the prenatal? Folic acid and a few other medications are provided for free by the government. That is more than sufficient to deliver a healthy child.
Ivie Wendy ❤️: “We shouldn’t discuss those who will become pregnant and begin using their own to disturb others.