After a series of DNA test arguments with his wife revealed the truth about their two children, a Nigerian father reveals a heartbreaking story of how his marriage fell apart.
The man described how he helped his family in Canada for five years by sending money for maintenance, remodeling, and even furnishing his in-laws’ home in an anonymous article that went viral.
He started the process of bringing his wife and two kids to Canada as soon as the chance to reunite arose, which involved obtaining DNA tests for visa papers.
His wife’s strong opposition to the DNA test, which she described as “dumb and demeaning,” changed the course of events. His concerns were sparked by her response, so he decided to conduct the testing while in Nigeria. His greatest concerns were validated by the results, which showed that the two children, ages five and seven, were not his biological children.
How I discovered that my wife’s two children are not mine…..
“I moved to Canada five years ago, leaving my wife and children in Nigeria. I was outfitting her parents’ home, remodeling our home, and sending money during that time.
I likewise intended to treat my parents in the same way. When I finally had the opportunity to bring my family to Canada, I took care of their passports and other documentation while I awaited the results of the DNA test. I trusted my wife, so I wasn’t even bothered.
I was in school when we first met. When I contacted her one weekend, she told me she was at church. We stopped by the church after one of my friends drove to my house and urged us both to come over, only to find it closed.
Her phone was turned off when I called her. I called repeatedly, but she didn’t pick up. Her classmates told me they hadn’t heard from her when I phoned them. When I requested my friend to drop me off at home since I was upset, he assured that she was safe.
Three hours or so later, she began phoning me. I hurried to answer the phone and inquired about her whereabouts. I was informed that she was at church. She remarked, “Oh, they shut the front door; we came in around the back,” in response to my statement that I had been there.
I claimed not to have heard any noises. “It’s up to you if you don’t want to believe me,” she continued. Let it go. Before graduating, getting married, and eventually having two kids, we went through the typical ups and downs of a relationship.
As I was providing the DNA information for my children, I now find myself lost in thinking. That was the reason I traveled to Nigeria. My wife claimed she was not going to go when the subject of DNA testing for the visa application came up since she thought it was foolish and offensive to request it.
She lost her temper and disparaged the entire procedure. She became very protective and agitated every time I brought up the DNA test for our children. Following the doctor’s instructions, I came down, received the sample, and left.
She didn’t understand why I had come after two weeks because I had begun to have my doubts. The children are not mine, and the findings are in. I’ve relocated to a distant state and stopped communicating. My own children are a 5-year-old and a 7-year-old. I think she was having an affair with the choirmaster, but I’m still missing.
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