Nigerian singer and songwriter Emoseh Khamofu, professionally known as Bloody Civilian, has publicly come out as a lesbian. On January 25, 2025, she took to her X (formerly Twitter) account to share, “I’m actually a lesbian. Can’t hide it anymore.”
Born in Taraba State and raised in Northern Nigeria, regions known for their conservative views, Bloody Civilian’s announcement is particularly significant. In Nigeria, same-sex relationships are criminalized, with individuals facing up to 14 years in prison under the Same-Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act signed into law in 2014.
Despite the potential risks, her revelation has been met with a mix of reactions. Some fans have expressed support, with comments like, “Nobody cares! Live your life sis!” Others have noted that her sexuality doesn’t change their perception of her music or talent.
Bloody Civilian first gained attention with her single “I Don’t Like You,” which resonated on social media platforms. Her debut track, “How To Kill A Man,” along with a collaboration with popular artist Rema titled “Wake Up,” were both featured on Marvel’s 2022 film “Black Panther: Wakanda Forever.”
In a recent interview, she discussed her upbringing in a conservative Northern Nigerian household and how it influenced her artistry and personal journey. She emphasized the challenges of hiding her true self and the relief that comes with embracing her identity publicly.
Her announcement has sparked discussions about LGBTQ+ representation in Nigeria’s entertainment industry, a sector deeply rooted in cultural and societal conservatism. While some view her revelation as a bold step towards inclusivity, others debate its potential impact on her career in a country where LGBTQ+ rights are limited.
Bloody Civilian’s courage in coming out highlights the evolving landscape of self-expression among Nigerian public figures. Her decision may inspire others to embrace their identities, contributing to broader conversations about acceptance and diversity within the country’s cultural framework.
As she continues her musical journey, fans and observers alike will be watching to see how this personal revelation influences her artistry and public reception. Regardless of differing opinions, Bloody Civilian’s openness marks a pivotal moment in the discourse surrounding sexuality and identity in Nigeria.